music freak, nothing else
Age 29, Female
Vape store Manager
Virginia
Joined on 10/28/09
One more thing...it's VITAL....that you stay POSITIVE.
When consulting the questions to yourself and to others.
But its okay to 'break-down' once in a while.
Take a listen to this...
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z50ZveXL-Ps">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z50Zve XL-Ps</a>
ill try ^_^
just...hit yourself in the face with teh hammer!!!!
you will sleep just fine after that :P
lolz
i just kinda wanna forget about it.
he was... ... ... there isn't anything "appropriate" to say
was it that bad???!!!!
not the kissing part, its the guy who stole my first kiss (and i do mean steal)
you mean you were raped?
no, not raped
...It makes me fucking unstable to hear people around my age...
Hearing them bitch about how they think love is real and stuff...
Really, what was there to gain by kissing someone in the first place?
well, i don't know, but i think its "supposed" to mean that you care about each other.
i don't think ive found a guy yet who wasn't fake, so im sorry if i complain ^_^
i mean, the guy couldn't have been that bad could of he?
i do hope you feel better, i hate to see you sad
he was a total fill in the blank!
after he broke up with me, by text, after i had JUST seen him, (not why he's a jerk)
but then he started dating my sister and was doing the same thing to her as me!
that, is the defition of asshole.
but i really hope you feel better.
just try and forget that asswipe, think about something fun.
i try, but i can't stop thinking about him, because i really did love him.
i wanna make it go away!
lets go with new topic ^_^
listen to somethng fun....U2 perhaps?
The Police?
The Alarm?
The Beatles?
Elvis?
i could go all day listing awesome bands
Queen?
AC-DC?
KISS?
Breaking Benjamin?
Bullet for my Valentine?
Dethklok?
damn now i'm into metal
Elton John?
Aerosmith?
Berlin?
ok, now i'm out of bands
you still have 5 1/2 hours left!
GO! GO! GO!
JakBaronKing
Anxieties of past and unpleasant occurrences are often the worst for anyone to handle.
But one must always understand the you can't forget your past. It'll always be there affecting your present life even if you can't remember it.
So I would recommend consulting the problem by yourself though a series of questions like...
1. What have I learned from this?
2. How can I avoid getting into an unpleasant situation like this?
3. etc.
Ask questions about your predicament (*to yourself first) and your mind will even automatically come up with solutions, almost as if by themselves.
And this will in term make you feel better about your conundrum.
You can't be hard on yourself for being in situations you wished you could've avoided. But look at it in a positive manner. You did all you could at the time, you are smarter about the situation, and you've gained experienced and knowledge you could pass on - making you a 'wise one'.
You should feel good about your current situation.
Although if you are indeed lost, consult with someone you trust.
Preferably a family member.
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Nothing in life is perfect - nor is it a fairy-tale.
But happiness is all about one's attitude towards situations in life.
And problem solving (like math) is a way of thinking to easily get yourself out or feel better about ANY unpleasant situation.
"Methodical Optimism" is what I call it.
redjokerx
i don't think ill ever tell a "family member" lol
i just kinda wish i could forget it :P